I was in the same situation, with an unplanned pregnancy, but I understand…it’s like automatically you love them. It’s a natural motherly instinct.
One of the hardest parts is blaming yourself. I was really bad about it. You know like “she was in MY body and she didn’t make it so what does that say about my body??”
But. It’s important to get past that. Most miscarriages are NOT caused by the mother. Most miscarriages occur becuase there is something wrong with the baby, and if they WERE born, they would likely die or have severe problems. So in a way, it’s really better for you baby that it happened the way it did. And believe me, I know how hard that is to think. But it’s really important for you to heal that you stop blaming yourself♥
I know how that is too/: One of my good friends had a baby the same week that I miscarried…it’s tough. And I don’t know exactly what to tell you to make it better/:
But I promise that, in time, it will♥ Stay strong♥